[P][FACE=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]系列日记三[/SIZE][/FACE][/P][P][FACE=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]观察班会后同学的落实情况：[/SIZE][/FACE][/P][P][SIZE=3][FACE=Times New Roman]2011[/SIZE][FACE=Times New Roman]年[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]11[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]月[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]15[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]日[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman] [/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]周三[/FACE][/FACE][/P][P][SIZE=3][FACE=Times New Roman]5[/SIZE][FACE=Times New Roman]点[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]15[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]分放学的散学班主任总结：老师今天想表扬两位同学：一位是袁晓媚同学，今天她早上[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]7:25[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]从后门刚一进教室就撤了回去，因为看到我站在讲台前面，然后从前门报告我点头允许才进了教室，这说明她把我们上周班会提到的礼仪落实到了行动中去，特提出表扬。另一位是梁辰同学，他再上周的班会中进行了自我批评，然后说到做到，把他得书架和课桌收拾整齐了，特提出表扬，希望继续保持。[/FACE][/FACE][/P][P][SIZE=3][FACE=Times New Roman]2011[/SIZE][FACE=Times New Roman]年[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]11[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]月[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]17[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]日[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman] [/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]周四[/FACE][/FACE][/P][P][SIZE=3][FACE=Times New Roman] [/SIZE][FACE=Times New Roman]今天一大早收到陈俊聪妈妈的电话，说他儿子早上起来说不舒服，问他哪里不舒服也不说，感觉心里好像有事。她一说我就明白了，因为班会完了之后我一直在观察他的反应，他的反应也验证了我的预测。我给她妈妈说，“那这样，如果是病了，你带他医院看看，没事的话，让他第二节课来学校我想和他聊聊[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]”[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]。果然[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]他在第二节上课的时候到了[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]我把他叫到只有我们两个人的一个辅导室[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]我给他说[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]:"[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]我们两个都是在这个学期才与这个班的同学认识的[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]([/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]他是唯一一个从普通班按排名分到这个班的学生[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]),[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]所以我一直觉得咱们两个更亲一些[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]你们你的英语是你最弱的科目[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]所以我上课的时候又会对你格外关注[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]现在我们两个就像朋友一样随便聊聊好吗[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]?”[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]然后他给我说出了他心里的疙瘩[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman].([/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]其实他要说的我早就已经预测到了[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]原来是在第四次月考中[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]他语文考了[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]127[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]分[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]这个分数另所有的语文老师都很惊讶[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]据说这是我们学校高中有史以来最高分[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman].[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]连语文老师都怀疑他这个分数的真实性[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]因为他的语文在班里是很不起眼的一个学生[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]前几次月考才考过八九十分[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]但有没有他作弊的证据[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]怀疑只能是怀疑[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]. [/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]而且我在月考总结会上还大力表扬了各科成绩突出的同学[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]尤其是他的语文[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman].)[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]这次班会有人提出了班里同学作弊的事[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]他认为别人是在说他[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman].[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]其实我后来也私下问了几个同学[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]他们确实说到了他[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman].[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]我问他[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]:”[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]你听到有人说你了吗[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]?”[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]他说[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman], “[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]没有[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]”.[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]我又给他说[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]:"[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]你知道[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]我刚知道你的分数的时候有多高兴吗[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]?[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]你又创造了一个神话[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]就像这次月考我们班英语终于出现[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]130[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]分以上的同学[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]年级语文数学学科最高分都在我们班[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]这个消息刺激了班里的很多同学[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]那你告诉老师实话[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]你的语文是你自己真实的水平吗[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]?”[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]看着他不坚定的表情[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]我明白了[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman].[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]但是我对他说[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]: “[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]实话告诉你[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]我知道班里谁作弊了[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]但这个名单里没有你[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman].[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]即使你的分数里面有水分[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]以后改正了[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]仍然是个好孩子[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]别人不会老盯着你过去犯的错误[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]只会看到你的现在和将来的表现[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman].[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]高三的学习来不得半点虚假[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]你用行动证明给大家看好吗[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]?” [/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]听了后他心里的轻松了很多[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]并且答应我下次月考一定考出更好的成绩[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman].[/FACE][/FACE][/P][P][SIZE=3][FACE=Times New Roman]反思[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]:[/SIZE][FACE=Times New Roman]自从上次班会有同学提出作弊的事情[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]我就一直在观察班里同学的反应[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]通过周考观察学生的动向[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]因为我不想因为这事伤害到犯了错误的同学[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]毕竟他们还是孩子[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]都会有犯错的时候[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]也私下找那几个说出这个现象的同学交流[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]表扬他们的正气[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]但同时也教育他们要学会宽容和谅解[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]要就事论事[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]不要孤立他们[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman], [/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]要帮助那些犯了错误的同学回到我们这个团结的班集体[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman].[/FACE][/FACE][/P]
